A few weeks ago I had a quick weekend trip to Greenwich, Connecticut for the wedding of my friends Derek and Alex. It was a lavish affair and it was fun to see a bunch of old friends who I had not seen for a while.
The trip started Friday with an early morning flight to JFK. The flight was pleasantly non-eventful, and I used the opportunity to doze a bit, catch up on Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me, watch some Cook’s Illustrated podcasts, do a little work, and read Atul Gawande’s Better (more on that in a later post). You know you listen to too much NPR when you get a Sylvia Poggioli joke on WWDTM. Sometimes it’s good to be disconnected – I might need to try that at home more. I finished the flight with a list of ten new CI recipes I want to attempt soon.
I arrived at Kennedy airport around mid-afternoon. It took a while to get bags, shuttle to the rental car area and then to the off-airport location for Enterprise, and rent the car, but despite every effort on the part of Enterprise to delay me further and upsell me on insurance I already had, by around 5 pm I was finally on my way. Sometimes the cheapest option is that way for a reason.
Traffic was a bit of a mess coming out of the city. NYC + rush hour + summer weekend traffic made for a bit of congestion. I got my “east coast” driving hat out and made it to Greenwich in about 90 minutes, which wasn’t too bad, all things considered. There was a torrential thunderstorm for a good part of the drive, which made the trip even more entertaining. Seattle, sadly, doesn’t get good thunderstorms often.
At the hotel, I was greeted by my friend Greg. I learned that the buses for the rehearsal dinner cruise on Long Island Sound were soon departing, so I checked in, and, pressed for time, handed my keys to the valet and my bags to the bellhop, and sent them off with $10 each to take care of things. I can’t be bothered with these, where’s the party. I felt important.
I hopped on the bus, chatted with friends, and soon we were on our way. With the earlier thunderstorms, I wasn’t sure what the prospects for the dinner cruise were, but the skies were starting to clear when we left, so I was hoping for the best.
It was a great time. The boat stayed in harbor for a while before we departed for a sunset tour of the sound. I was blown away by the oceanfront mansions, which were quite unbelievable. I unfortunately didn’t think to grab my camera in the pre-boat hotel scramble, and my phone was dead from airplane + Google maps overuse, Oh well.
In addition, the food and drinks were great. It was a clambake on the water, with lots of shrimp, oysters, clams, lobster, corn on the cob, and potatoes. Food, drinks, and good friends, especially ones I hadn’t seen together in a while, are always a winner for me.
The festivities continued back at the hotel. We claimed space at the hotel bar, which was actually pretty nice, but Greenwich priced – $11.25 (pre-tip) for a watery single gin and tonic. Someone snuck in some beers and liquor (including a 1964 bottle of Crown Royale), but we weren’t too smooth in our clandestine ways, and the hotel staff frowned upon bringing outside liquor into the bar. Understandable, and they were surprisingly cool about it.
So we brought the party upstairs, and I headed back to my room around 3:30. One advantage of living on the west coast is late night stamina on the east coast.
One disadvantage of living on the west coast is waking up in the morning on the east coast (especially after utilizing aforementioned advantage). I rolled out of the hotel around 12:30 which was after most people had headed out. So I had the afternoon to myself. I explored Old Greenwich, got some coffee and lunch, checked out some shops, and then made my way back to the hotel to get ready.
The dress for the wedding was “Creative Formal” – I initially was going to emphasize the Creative and not get a tuxedo, but at the last minute, decided to rent one, and found one that I thought fit the bill – an ivory “Great Gasby-esque” number that the kind woman at Tux Shop in Northgate convinced me to go for. I think it worked well. I don’t think I’ve worn a tuxedo since I was about six years old when I think I was the ring bearer in my aunt’s wedding, so I figured it was about time to wear one again.

We waited a very long time for the buses to shuttle us to Alex’s house, and in fact arrived about half an hour after the ceremony was supposed to start. Fortunately, they held off until we arrived, perhaps because one of the ceremony readers was in our attendance. Greg and Aimee read perhaps the most memorable poem I can recall hearing at a wedding.

The reception itself was fantastic. A beautiful house, a great band, wonderful toasts (kudos to Derek’s brother for using the words “sylvan” and “perspicacious” in his best man speech), a very posh tent and dance floor, and unreal food and drinks. Hors D’Ouevres included tacos, frozen margaritas, and mini burgers, and it only got better as the night went on.

Perhaps the most appreciated touch was that the mini-burgers and pizza continued to be served at the post-reception after party. The after-party was notable in that it included some pick-up water polo with Derek and John Jack (aka Bill Tankford). We wrapped up around 3 and took the last bus back to the hotel.

The next day, still fighting Pacific time, I checked out and made my way to the farewell brunch (bacon!). After saying goodbye, with a few hours to kill, decided to go check out Greenwich Point, which is a beach on the south end of Greenwich on a fairly picturesque location. Considering the $25 entrance fee, I was a little underwhelmed, but had a relaxing afternoon and shot some pictures.


After hanging on the beach, I headed back to NYC to catch my flight. Fortunately I left when I did, because the combination of the Sunday traffic and American Airlines convoluted checkin process meant I had less time than I thought. But I made it on alright, finished reading “Better”, and caught up on sleep.

Congratulations Derek and Alex – thanks for a great weekend!

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